Studies show that men and women rate male sexual performance differently. Let’s clear the air on premature ejaculation
A study by Men’s Health asked men to rate their own sexual performance. The magazine then asked over a thousand women the same thing about their male partner. The results found that men are potentially more worried about conditions like premature ejaculation than they need to be.
According to the survey:
- Just 23% of men feel they always last long enough during sexual intercourse
- 52% of men feel they usually last long enough
- 20% of men said they sometimes experience difficulties with lasting long enough
- 5% of men feel they rarely last as long as they want to during sex
However, the same survey found these responses from women:
- 38% say their partner always lasts long enough
- 43% say their partner lasts long enough most of the time
- 13% say their partner finds it difficult to last long enough
- 6.5% say their partner rarely lasts long enough
- Only 22% claim that how long their man lasts is their main complaint.
Main Takeaway From This Survey
The most common complaint was that men spend too little time engaging in foreplay.
These results show that, in general, men were much more critical of their own sexual performance time than their female partners. In some ways, this isn’t surprising, as there is no firm definition of how long sexual intercourse should last and therefore no exact duration which people should expect to reach.
So - What Is Premature Ejaculation?
Premature ejaculation is generally defined as a man reaching climax too quickly, often with little stimulation necessary. It is the most common ejaculation problem amongst men. In a study of 500 couples from 5 different countries, the average length of sexual intercourse was around five-and-a-half minutes, and most medical professionals define premature ejaculation as reaching climax within two minutes or less.
Understanding and treating premature ejaculation
Premature ejaculation is something most men will experience at least once in their lifetime, but around 20-30% of men are thought to experience the condition regularly. Sadly, many men suffer in silence due to embarrassment (not that there is any need to be embarrassed!).
What Causes Premature Ejaculation?
There are a wide variety of factors which can increase your risk of experiencing premature ejaculation. Common physical causes of premature ejaculation include prostate problems and thyroid problems — such as an overactive or underactive thyroid gland — and factors like high blood pressure, diabetes and spinal injury. Lifestyle factors can also play a part, such as excessive alcohol consumption, recreational drug use and smoking.
The cause can be also psychological, caused by factors such as stress, anxiety, guilt, nervousness, depression and relationship problems. It can also be the result of underlying trauma.
Talking To Your Partner About Premature Ejaculation
It’s important to include your partner in your concerns as much as possible. Some men find that simply discussing their symptoms with their partner (or attending sessions such as couples therapy) can have a positive effect on their premature ejaculation symptoms. It also allows you to discuss new sexual possibilities with your partner which might help increase the length of your performance.
Treating Premature Ejaculation
If you’re guilty of any of the potential lifestyle causes, it can also be beneficial to practise healthier daily habits. These might include cutting down on smoking and drinking, as well as stopping the use of any recreational drugs.
It is also possible to treat premature ejaculation with safe and effective medication. Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs) are designed to treat depression, but they can also help to delay ejaculation. Priligy is one effective example of an SSRI which can be used to treat premature ejaculation by stopping the ejaculatory expulsion reflex from reaching your brain too quickly. It has been found to potentially increase sexual performance time by 200 to 300%.
Priligy is currently available from Express Pharmacy alongside a range of other premature ejaculation treatments. If you have a concern but are not sure what to do about it, why not call the team on 0208 123 07 03 or use our discreet live chat service.